GB, You just couldn't believe this fiasco. Without wishing to rain on the parade, I would at least expect the returned item to match the other three from the same source. Also, unless you specified a built up and refaced follower, a high quality OEM or higher spec. follower should have been supplied.
As it stands, that odd one, or even a full set of odd ones, look just plain wrong. Then again, maybe it is the other three that look too big. Have you a reasonable set of original BSA followers to compare?
Most frustrating for you, and once more the integrity of the supplier comes into question on the basis of the known facts.
Swarfy.